La Saint-Valentin in France
St Valentine’s Day in France is celebrated widely. From silly gifts to flowers/chocolates
/jewelry to exotic get-aways, the fête succitates joy, fun, and romance. Romantic dinners in restaurants abound, travel agents post signs of couple’s cruises, and lingerie shops have a field day. Whether one waits for it with great expectations (“What’s s/he going to do?”) or with trepidation (“What should I give him/her?”), St Valentine’s has a special meaning for each of us. The advice one gets in magazines in France is to not worry about it but…just participate. Here are a few paraphrased suggestions:
First of all, they suggest knowing what the other wants/expects. If you’re coupled up, one should be attentive to the needs and wants of one’s partner. Find out ahead of time what the expectations are; don’t be caught up short. It’s a bit like a mirror; one should reflect what the other is thinking/desiring.
There are always the classic gifts: perfume, jewels, flowers or plants, but also trendy gifts such as cooking or wine-tasting classes. It’s also an opportunity to take time out for the couple, to organize something you can do together…a nice dinner together in a special restaurant, a romantic couple’s massage, a spa day or weekend. And the small details count, as well: breakfast in bed, your turn to do the cleaning up or take baby out.
Most of all, St. Valentine’s should be fun and spontaneous. According to a recent survey, only 40% of French couples celebrate the day; the other 60% know that St. Valentine’s Day happens all year long.
Some recent figures:
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58.4% of French live together as couples
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39.5% of French couples celebrate la Saint Valentin;
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30% of French men intend to offer a gift of between 60-100 E for Valentine’s Day ($85-$140)
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8,7 = the number of times per month the French have sexual relations (both men and women)
Vive l’amour!